PART 2: HOW TO INCREASE LOVE AND SETTLE MARRIAGE CONFLICT QUICKLY
Marriage Mediation is NOT marriage counselling. It is a confidential process where spouses can resolve major disputes. Counselling focuses on feelings and in most times, the past. But marriage mediation focuses on behaviours and the future.
The goal of marriage mediation is to create a co-operative agreement regarding an issue that has been unable to be resolved between spouses. It does not result in a court order, marriage mediation is an agreement a spouse follow out of honour and commitment to have a successful relationship.
Areas of disagreement in marriage may include such issues as:
1) What religon shall the children be raised?
2) How can we as couple be affected by each of our families?
3) Boundries for the inlaws
5) Limit on what information to be shared with inlaws
6) Differing expectations of affections and sex, parental practices, money management and career plan.
7) Unfaithfulness and cheat to spouse
Many relationships may be consumed by disagreement, silent tension,extra marital affairs or bitter vocal argument. These symptoms of toxic relationship often lead to alienation, followed by unhappiness and disaffection that frequently result in divorce or spousal break up. While couples may spend months and often years in marriage counselling to slove marital problems without satisifaction, there may be a better and faster way called Marriage Mediation.
Any of these issues can be resolved through mediation, Spouses WANT to work together. They work together to explore an issue and agree how they will move forward together adderssing the issue. They avoid a situation where one spouse says “Fine, do it your way” and walks away having given in but feeling frustrated and resentful, creating an underlying turmoil in their marriage.
Love it or hate it, your family is your family. Get wise and save your marriage.
The biggest benefit of marriage mediation is that it brings the couples back to a position of being partners and working together rather than being adversaries and trying to win.
Finally, Marriage mediation is the most direct and cost effective way to address current and future issues in your relationship.
At Reconciliation and Conflict Resolution / Mediation Center, we have trained, experienced and qualified mediators whose specialization in marriage and family mediation has earned us a great reputable honor among others. It is the testimonies of people like you, who either has benefited by implimenting the tested and proven strategies on conflict management posted in this website or by direct contact with our mediators during mediation proceedings that has actually placed us as top favorite in conflict resolution. Either ways, we´re confident that you will soon smile in victory if you can take a step now and do just that. I´m sure that thereafter you may let the world know the result of your experience with our services.
If you are interested in finding help in your relationship, then contact us at (contact@pastorizuwaministries.org) or visit our website at; http://www.pastorizuwaministries.org
Peace
